I just finished reading Never Eat Alone, by Keith Ferrazzi. This book, with its bright orange cover, found me as I sauntered through the book store a few weeks ago sipping my coffee. I’m always on the lookout for ways to improve my networking. I was looking for something to prepare me for the next seminar I’ll be attending (BigSeminar in Atlanta next week) – and this found me just in time.
From the dust jacket, “In Never Eat Alone, Ferrazzi lays out the specific steps – and inner mindset – he uses to reach out to connect with the thousands of colleagues, friends, and associates on his Rolodex, people he has helped and who have helped him… Ferrazzi’s form of connecting to the world around him is based on generosity, helping friends connect with other friends. Ferrazzi distinguishes genuine relationship-building from the crude, desperate glad-handing usually associated with ‘networking’. He then distills his system of reaching out to people into practical, proven principals.”
Sounds just like my friend Heshie’s principals.
What really struck me is that in this book, Keith Ferrazzi talks about giving before getting and also spirituality and success. It just really rang true for me. He also cites a quick anecdote from Eleanor Roosevelt where she uses the term enlightenment. Check it out:
“In 1936, thanks largely to the First Lady, an opera singer named Marian Anderson became the first black person to perform at the White House. But Anderson’s acceptance at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue was unusual. Though Anderson was the country’s third-highest concert box-office draw, her success did not exempt her from the racial biases that pervaded her era. When traveling, she was restricted to ‘colored’ waiting rooms, hotels, and train cars. In the South, newspapers rarely called her ‘Miss Anderson’, opting for ‘Artist Anderson’ and ‘Singer Anderson’ instead.
In 1939, Anderson’s manager and Howard University tried to arrange a performance at Constitution Hall in Washington, D.C. The Daughters of the American Revolution (D.A.R.), the organization that owned the Hall, refused them. Roosevelt, herself a member of the D.A.R., promptly – and publicly – resigned her membership to protest. In a letter to the D.A.R., she wrote, ‘
I am in complete disagreement with the attitude taken in refusing Constitution Hall to a great artist… You had an opportunity to lead in an enlightened way and it seems to me that your organization has failed.’
Mrs. Roosevelt arranged for Anderson to perform on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial. The show, on April 9 (Easter Sunday), 1939, was seen by a crowd of 75,000.”
Check out this book if the above interests you.
Success,
Greg